The Great Toddler Adventures in Frustration Complications

It has been the beginning of the terrible twos or so I thought all signs point that way but i had an idea yesterday(light bulb). What Ben used to do when he was frustrated against my better judgement, and despite all my protest. This gesture has been made into something funny he used to push his hands together it was like he had to magnets fighting each other they would not go together and he held his breath i did not like it but it was a better alternative to now. Dad decided to make it funny no matter how many times i said please don't.. What do we get in return? Well we get a very frustrated toddler who now when he can't get his point across now beats his head off anything no matter how hard it is in sight he is gonna knock himself unconscious. What would you do in these shoes.